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Divorce

The costs of filing for divorce in New York can vary based on factors like:
   - Court Fees: Including filing fees for initiating divorce proceedings and other administrative costs.   
   - Attorney Fees: Charges for legal services, which can vary based on the attorney's experience and the complexity of your case.   
   - Additional Expenses: Such as fees for serving divorce papers to your spouse, mediation costs if applicable, and expenses related to property appraisals or evaluations.
Controlling costs involves understanding fee structures, discussing fees with your attorney upfront, and considering alternative dispute resolution methods like mediation to reduce legal expenses
Yes, lying about important facts related to background or history (such as criminal record, previous marriages, or financial status) can be grounds for annulment in New York under the fraud category. If it can be proven that the deception was significant enough to affect the marriage and its validity, the court may grant an annulment.
The costs associated with filing for an annulment in New York can include court filing fees, attorney fees if you choose to hire legal representation, and any costs related to gathering evidence or witnesses to support your case. Court filing fees vary by county, so it's advisable to check with your local family court or consult with a family law attorney to get an estimate of the costs involved in pursuing an annulment.
Yes, you can still pursue an annulment in New York if children are involved. However, the annulment process does not address issues such as, child custody, visitation, or child support. Those issues would need to be resolved separately through the family court system. An annulment declares the marriage void from its inception but does not affect parental rights or obligations regarding children born during the marriage.
No, both parties do not need to agree to an annulment in New York. Unlike divorce, where mutual consent may be required for a no-fault divorce, annulment can often be pursued by one spouse unilaterally if sufficient grounds exist to challenge the validity of the marriage. The court decides whether the grounds presented are valid for an annulment.
Yes, you can date other people during a legal separation in New York even though you are still legally married. However, it's essential to consider the emotional and legal implications. Dating during separation can complicate matters if custody or financial issues are contested, especially if it affects children or spousal support negotiations.
New York State does not require specific grounds for legal separation. As long as you meet residency requirements and can demonstrate to the court that the marriage has irretrievably broken down, you can seek legal separation. The reasons for seeking separation can vary and may include irreconcilable differences, living apart due to marital discord, or the need to formalize arrangements for children and finances.
To file for legal separation in New York, you must file a petition in the Supreme Court (New York's trial-level court) or Family Court in your county. The petition should outline the reasons for seeking legal separation and propose terms for issues like property division, child custody, and support. You must meet residency requirements and adhere to court procedures, including serving the petition to your spouse.

Consulting with a family law attorney, such as Thomas Hartin, is advisable to ensure your petition complies with legal requirements and addresses all necessary issues.

Division of Marital Property

In New York, marital property includes all assets and debts acquired during the marriage, regardless of whose name they are in. This can include everything from real estate to income and debts. There are exceptions for gifts, inheritances, and personal injury awards. The division of marital property in New York is based on the principle of equitable distribution, which means fair but not necessarily equal.

Spousal Support (Alimony)

In New York, spousal support generally ends if the recipient spouse remarries. The rationale is that once the recipient spouse enters a new marriage, their new spouse is expected to provide financial support. However, cohabitation with another person may also be grounds for modifying or terminating support, but it is not automatic. The paying spouse must prove that the recipient is living with someone in a relationship similar to marriage and that this relationship affects their financial needs.

Cohabitation laws vary by case, and the court will look at the specific facts, such as whether the couple shares expenses and how long they have been living together.
As of 2019, under the federal Tax Cuts and Jobs Act, spousal support (alimony) is no longer taxable income for the recipient or tax-deductible for the payer in New York or anywhere in the United States. This change applies to divorce agreements signed on or after January 1, 2019. For agreements finalized before that date, the old tax rules still apply: the recipient must report spousal support as income, and the payer can deduct it on their tax return.

The tax implications of spousal support can have a significant impact on the finances of both parties, so it’s important to understand how the laws apply to your specific situation.Accordion content goes here.
When determining spousal support in New York, the court considers several factors in addition to the standard formula. These factors help ensure the support arrangement is fair and equitable:

The length of the marriage: Longer marriages may result in higher or longer-lasting support.
Each spouse's income and property: The court examines both the earning potential and current assets of both parties.
The age and health of both spouses: If one spouse has significant health problems, this may increase the need for financial support.
The standard of living during the marriage: The court seeks to maintain a comparable standard of living for both parties after the divorce.
Contributions to the marriage: Non-economic contributions, such as being a stay-at-home parent or supporting the other spouse’s career, are taken into account.
The ability of the paying spouse to support both themselves and the recipient: The court considers whether the paying spouse can afford the support while also meeting their own financial needs.
These and other relevant factors are weighed to arrive at a fair and reasonable support amount.
Yes, spousal support in New York can be modified, but only under certain conditions. If there is a significant change in circumstances—such as a job loss, a substantial decrease in income, a serious illness, or a change in the financial needs of the recipient spouse—either spouse can petition the court to modify the spousal support order.

The spouse requesting the modification must demonstrate that the change in circumstances is substantial and ongoing. If the court finds that the request is justified, it may increase, decrease, or terminate the support order. However, modifications are not made lightly, and the court will carefully review the evidence before making any changes.
The duration of spousal support in New York varies depending on whether the payments are temporary (during the divorce process) or post-divorce maintenance. For temporary spousal support, payments usually last until the divorce is finalized. Once the divorce is completed, post-divorce maintenance can be ordered.

The duration of post-divorce maintenance is often based on the length of the marriage. New York courts use the following guidelines:

For marriages lasting up to 15 years, maintenance typically lasts 15% to 30% of the length of the marriage.
For marriages lasting 15 to 20 years, maintenance is generally ordered for 30% to 40% of the length of the marriage.
For marriages lasting over 20 years, support may last for 35% to 50% of the marriage's length.
However, the court can adjust the duration based on specific circumstances, including the financial situation of each spouse or any agreements made during the divorce process.
In New York, spousal support is calculated using a specific formula set forth in state law. The formula is primarily based on the income of both spouses. For couples earning less than $203,000 annually (as of 2023), the basic formula works as follows:

30% of the higher-earning spouse's income is subtracted from 20% of the lower-earning spouse's income.
The court may then adjust this amount based on additional factors, such as the duration of the marriage, the financial needs of the lower-earning spouse, and any special circumstances (e.g., medical expenses or education costs).
However, for higher-income spouses (those earning above $203,000), the court may award additional support based on other factors like lifestyle during the marriage and the recipient spouse’s needs. The goal is to ensure a fair outcome that balances the financial disparity between the spouses.
In New York, spousal support and alimony are terms that are often used interchangeably, but they refer to different legal concepts. Spousal support is financial assistance paid by one spouse to the other during the marriage or while a divorce is pending. It helps ensure that a lower-earning or non-earning spouse can maintain a reasonable standard of living while the legal proceedings are ongoing. Alimony, which is also called spousal maintenance in New York, is financial support paid after the divorce is finalized.

The distinction lies in the timing: spousal support is provided during the marriage or before the divorce is completed, while alimony or maintenance refers to payments made after the marriage has legally ended. Both types of support are designed to provide financial stability to a spouse who may have been financially dependent on the other during the marriage.
Spousal support, or alimony, may be granted in New York based on several factors, including the length of the marriage, each spouse's current and future earning capacity, and the need for one spouse to obtain training or education. The aim is to ensure that neither spouse faces financial destitution following a divorce.

Child Custody

Yes, grandparents in New York can seek both custody and visitation rights, but they must meet specific legal standards. For visitation, grandparents may petition the court if they can prove that it would be in the best interest of the child to maintain a relationship. This typically applies when a strong, pre-existing relationship exists between the grandparent and the child, or if the parents have blocked reasonable access.

For grandparents to seek custody, they must demonstrate extraordinary circumstances, such as:

Both parents being deemed unfit due to neglect, abuse, or incapacity.
The death of one or both parents.
Circumstances where the child has already been living with the grandparents for an extended period.
Courts are generally reluctant to interfere with parental rights unless these significant factors are present.
In cases where a parent wishes to relocate with the child, New York courts weigh several factors to determine whether the move is in the child's best interests. These include:

Impact on the child’s relationship with the non-relocating parent: The court evaluates whether the move will harm the child’s relationship with the other parent and if alternative arrangements (e.g., extended holiday visitation) can mitigate this impact.
The reason for the move: Is the parent moving for a legitimate reason, such as a better job, closer family support, or educational opportunities? Or is the move an attempt to distance the child from the other parent?
Benefits of the move for the child: The court considers whether the relocation will improve the child’s quality of life, such as access to better schools, safer neighborhoods, or emotional well-being.
Feasibility of maintaining a meaningful relationship: The court also looks at how practical it will be for the non-relocating parent to maintain regular contact with the child, such as through virtual visitation or weekend stays.
Relocation cases are often complex, and the court’s primary concern is ensuring the child’s welfare while balancing both parents' rights to meaningful relationships with their child.
To modify a custody order in New York, the requesting parent must demonstrate a substantial change in circumstances since the original custody order was established. This could include changes in a parent’s living situation, a parent’s ability to care for the child, or significant changes in the child's needs.

Common reasons for modifying custody include:

Job relocation: If a parent moves a significant distance that affects the current custody arrangement.
Changes in the child’s preferences: As children grow older, their preferences may change, and the court may take that into account if it serves their best interests.
Health issues: If one parent’s health or the child’s health changes in a way that impacts care arrangements.
The parent requesting the modification must file a petition with the family court, and the court will then hold a hearing to assess whether the change is in the child's best interests.
Joint custody in New York can refer to both legal and physical custody. Joint legal custody means that both parents share the responsibility of making significant decisions regarding the child's upbringing. This requires parents to communicate effectively and work together, even if the child primarily lives with one parent.

Joint physical custody involves the child splitting their time between both parents' homes. The exact division of time may not always be equal but is structured in a way that both parents have substantial time with the child. This arrangement works best when both parents live relatively close to one another to avoid disrupting the child's school, social life, and routine.

While joint custody can be ideal for keeping both parents involved, it requires a level of cooperation and flexibility. If parents struggle with conflict or communication, joint custody may not be in the best interest of the child, and a different arrangement might be sought.
While a child’s preference can play a role in custody decisions in New York, it is not the sole determining factor. If a child is mature enough, typically around the age of 12 or older, the court may take their opinion into account. However, the judge will weigh the child’s wishes alongside other factors to ensure the decision is truly in the child’s best interests.

For example, if a child expresses a preference for living with one parent due to a closer emotional bond, this will be considered. However, if the child prefers one parent because that parent enforces fewer rules or is more lenient, the court may place less weight on the child’s opinion.

Ultimately, the child’s safety, well-being, and overall happiness are the court’s primary concerns, and the child's preference is one piece of that broader picture.
New York courts focus on the "best interests of the child" when determining custody. This principle guides all decisions related to custody and visitation. The court evaluates a variety of factors to ensure that the child's emotional, physical, and developmental needs are met.

Key considerations include:

Each parent’s ability to provide for the child: This includes financial stability, emotional support, and overall living environment.
Parental involvement: The court looks at which parent has been the primary caregiver, who attends school functions, medical appointments, and other aspects of the child’s life.
The child's relationship with each parent: A strong bond with both parents is encouraged unless one parent has a history of abuse or neglect.
Parental behavior and stability: If there are issues of substance abuse, domestic violence, or instability in one parent’s life, that can weigh heavily in the court’s decision.
The child's preferences: In some cases, the court may consider the child’s wishes, especially if the child is mature enough to articulate a reasoned preference.
The overriding goal is to place the child in an environment that promotes their health, safety, and happiness.
In New York, child custody can be broken down into two primary types: legal custody and physical custody. Legal custody refers to a parent’s right to make major decisions about their child’s life. This includes choices about education, healthcare, religion, and general welfare. Physical custody, on the other hand, determines where the child will live and which parent will be responsible for day-to-day care.

There are further distinctions within these categories:

Sole Legal Custody: One parent has the authority to make all significant decisions about the child's life without needing to consult the other parent.
Joint Legal Custody: Both parents share the responsibility of making decisions. This requires cooperation and communication between the parents.
Sole Physical Custody: The child resides with one parent, and the other parent typically has visitation rights.
Joint Physical Custody: The child spends substantial time living with both parents, though not necessarily an equal split.
Each arrangement is designed to prioritize the child’s best interests, whether that involves both parents equally or one parent taking a more primary role.
Divorce in New York involves establishing child custody (legal and physical) and determining child support obligations based on the best interests of the child:

- Custody: Addresses where the child will live (physical custody) and decision-making authority (legal custody), often decided through negotiation or court order.

- Support: Ensures financial support for the child's upbringing, calculated based on guidelines considering each parent's income and other factors.

Both parents are typically encouraged to maintain a meaningful relationship with their children, with custody arrangements designed to promote stability and well-being.
Legal separation in New York allows spouses to establish child custody, visitation schedules, and child support arrangements through a court-approved agreement or order. These arrangements are legally enforceable and can serve as a basis for future divorce proceedings if the separation leads to divorce. The court prioritizes the best interests of the child when determining custody and support during legal separation.
In New York, grandparents can petition for visitation rights if at least one of the child's parents is deceased, or if there are circumstances where equity would see fit to intervene. The court considers the overall best interest of the child, including the relationship between the grandparents and the child, when making a decision.

What about child support?

Both parents in New York have an obligation to support their children financially. Child support is calculated using a standard formula based on the parents' income and the number of children. Adjustments might be made based on the needs of the children and the financial resources of each parent.

Paternity Issues

Establishing paternity is crucial for unmarried parents to ensure legal rights, custody, and child support arrangements. In New York, paternity can be established voluntarily by both parents signing an Acknowledgement of Paternity or through a court order, particularly if there is a dispute regarding the child's paternity.

Mediation

You do not need a lawyer to participate in mediation in New York, and many people choose to represent themselves during the process. However, it is often advisable to consult with a lawyer, especially in complex cases like divorce or business disputes. A lawyer can provide valuable legal advice before and after mediation, ensuring that your rights are protected and that any agreement you sign is in your best interest.

Some people prefer to have their lawyer present during mediation sessions, while others may consult with a lawyer between sessions or after an agreement is reached. Having legal guidance can be particularly important when finalizing the terms of a settlement, as a lawyer can help ensure the agreement is fair and legally sound.
Mediation is not mandatory for all cases in New York, but it is encouraged in many situations. In divorce and child custody cases, for example, some courts require that couples at least attempt mediation before proceeding to trial. This is because mediation can reduce conflict and lead to quicker, more amicable resolutions, particularly when children are involved.

That being said, participation in mediation is still voluntary in most cases, and either party can choose to leave the process at any time. Mediation is typically encouraged because it allows for more tailored solutions and preserves relationships, which is particularly important in family law cases.
Mediation in New York can resolve a wide variety of disputes, from personal to business-related conflicts. Common areas where mediation is used include:

Family Law Matters: Divorce, child custody, child support, spousal support, and visitation disputes are frequently resolved through mediation. It’s especially useful in family situations because it allows the parties to come to an agreement without the emotional strain of litigation.
Business and Commercial Disputes: Mediation can help resolve disagreements between business partners, disputes over contracts, or conflicts between companies and consumers.
Landlord-Tenant Disputes: Issues related to rent, repairs, or eviction can often be worked out through mediation, avoiding the need for lengthy and expensive court battles.
Employment Disputes: Mediation can address workplace conflicts, including wrongful termination, discrimination, and wage disputes.
Neighbor Disputes: Conflicts over property lines, noise, or shared spaces between neighbors can often be resolved in mediation without going to court.
The flexibility of mediation makes it suitable for nearly any civil dispute where both parties are willing to negotiate in good faith.
Mediation is a voluntary and collaborative process where disputing parties work with a neutral third party, called a mediator, to resolve their issues outside of court. In New York, mediation can be used for a wide range of conflicts, including family law matters, business disputes, and personal injury claims. The process is designed to be less formal than court proceedings, with the goal of fostering communication between the parties so they can reach a mutually acceptable agreement.

In a typical New York mediation session, the mediator facilitates discussions between both parties, helping them articulate their concerns and explore potential solutions. The mediator does not make decisions or offer legal advice but rather guides the conversation and encourages compromise. Mediation allows the parties to control the outcome, unlike a trial where a judge or jury decides the result.
Mediation is a voluntary, confidential process where divorcing couples work with a neutral mediator to resolve issues such as child custody, visitation, support, and property division. In New York, mediation offers an alternative to litigation, promoting cooperative decision-making and reducing conflict.

During mediation, the mediator facilitates discussions, helps clarify issues, and assists in negotiating mutually acceptable agreements. The mediator does not make decisions but guides the process toward reaching a settlement that both parties can agree on. Mediation in New York can be highly effective for couples willing to communicate and compromise, fostering solutions tailored to their unique circumstances. It's often less expensive and time-consuming than traditional litigation, offering greater control over outcomes while promoting post-divorce cooperation.
Divorce mediation is a voluntary process where both parties work together with a neutral mediator to resolve their divorce issues outside of court. This process encourages open communication and negotiation, allowing couples to reach a mutually agreeable settlement on matters like property division, child custody, and spousal support. Mediation can be less stressful, more private, and often more cost-effective than traditional divorce proceedings.Accordion content goes here.

Prenuptial Agreements and Postnuptial Agreements

In New York, prenuptial agreements can address property division and spousal support but cannot legally include terms about child custody or child support. Decisions about children must be made based on the children's best interests at the time of the divorce, not predetermined in a prenuptial agreement.
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